Sally McNeil shot her husband, bodybuilder Ray McNeil, on Valentine’s Day in 1995. She said she acted in self-defense during a violent confrontation; prosecutors argued that the killing was murder. A jury convicted her of second-degree murder. The case centered on sharply competing accounts of domestic abuse and the shooting.
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01Books
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02Movies
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03TV & documentaries
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Netflix · 2022 · documentary series
Killer Sally
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North County Times · 1996-03-09 · Page 20
Sally McNeil’s daughter testifies
Court reporting describes testimony about abuse and the defense’s account of the shooting.
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CBS 8 San Diego
Body builder Sally McNeil court appearances in 1995 and 1996
Video from CBS 8 San Diego covering the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Length: 3:52.
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “Bodybuilding, Betrayal, and Murder in Oceanside, CA: The Killer Sally/Sally McNeil Case.” This creator channel covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. The platform may ask you to sign in.
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “Bodybuilding, Betrayal, and Murder in Oceanside, CA: The Killer Sally/Sally McNeil Case.” This creator channel covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. The platform may ask you to sign in.
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “CALIFORNIA: Ray & Sally McNeil.” This creator channel covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. The platform may ask you to sign in.
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “CALIFORNIA: Ray & Sally McNeil.” This discussion group covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. Group rules or membership approval may limit access.
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “Muscles, Marriage, and Murder: The Sally McNeil Story.” This creator channel covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. The platform may ask you to sign in.
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “Muscles, Marriage, and Murder: The Sally McNeil Story.” This creator channel covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. The platform may ask you to sign in.
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “Ep 34. Sally McNeil "Killer Sally".” This creator channel covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. The platform may ask you to sign in.
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11Court records & documents
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McNeil v. Middleton — federal review after remand
The Ninth Circuit’s decision after Supreme Court review, examining jury instructions on self-defense and battered-woman syndrome in Sally McNeil’s case.
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07Social Media
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CBS 8 San Diego
Body builder Sally McNeil court appearances in 1995 and 1996
Video from CBS 8 San Diego covering the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Length: 3:52.
Watch on YouTubeNetflix
Killer Sally | Official Trailer | Netflix
Trailer or preview from Netflix covering the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Length: 2:00.
Watch on YouTubeInside Edition
Why Did ‘Killer Sally’ Shoot Her Bodybuilder Husband?
Video from Inside Edition covering the Sally & Ray McNeil case. Length: 2:16.
Watch on YouTubeFacebook · Creator channel
Housewives of True Crime — Facebook page
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “Bodybuilding, Betrayal, and Murder in Oceanside, CA: The Killer Sally/Sally McNeil Case.” This creator channel covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. The platform may ask you to sign in.
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Housewives of True Crime — TikTok channel
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “Bodybuilding, Betrayal, and Murder in Oceanside, CA: The Killer Sally/Sally McNeil Case.” This creator channel covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. The platform may ask you to sign in.
Visit the TikTok channelTikTok · Creator channel
Military Murder — TikTok channel
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “CALIFORNIA: Ray & Sally McNeil.” This creator channel covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. The platform may ask you to sign in.
Visit the TikTok channelFacebook · Creator community
Military Murder — Facebook group
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “CALIFORNIA: Ray & Sally McNeil.” This discussion group covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. Group rules or membership approval may limit access.
View the Facebook groupFacebook · Creator channel
10 Minute Murder | Bingeable True Crime Stories — Facebook page
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “Muscles, Marriage, and Murder: The Sally McNeil Story.” This creator channel covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. The platform may ask you to sign in.
Visit the Facebook pageTikTok · Creator channel
10 Minute Murder | Bingeable True Crime Stories — TikTok channel
Linked by this creator in the episode notes for “Muscles, Marriage, and Murder: The Sally McNeil Story.” This creator channel covers multiple cases. The matching case episode is linked below. The platform may ask you to sign in.
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Why Dey Do Dat? — Facebook page
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